Comment: You make everyone that doesn't have a big family out to be not following God's plan. How do you know what His plan is for me? For the next person? You don't. You feel called to have a large family, go for it. We do not feel called to. Period.
Reply: I don't know how many is right for you or me. None of us know how many is "right". That's the point...we leave it ALL up to GOD. Some of us "quiverfull" couples have 1 or 2 children, some have none, while others have 19. The point is...NO HUMAN knows how many is "right" and "perfect". That's why we leave it ALL up to God. It's really as simple as that. We let GOD, and God alone, decide when and IF to create souls within our wombs. Oh, and all Christians should feel "called" to obeying God's Word and to let Him have control over creating eternal beings for His Glory, not for our convenience and on our time schedule.