Great answer to that question here! Overall, the husband is the head of the home, and should make a decision based on the Bible and God's beliefs about the blessings of children. As long as you are not killing a child (via the abortion, the pill or another hormonal birth control option), then you are correctly under his headship, if he is the one that wants to stop having more children. If *he* is the one desiring another child, pray for unity. Try to submit to his leadership! Read this post from the Jeubs!