Here's a video of the children finding out if he was Isaiah or she was Eva!
Daddy showed the children Eva's ultrasound photos!
Striving to Please Jesus in All We Do
Kaitlyn Noelle turns 11 today! Per her request, (er, BEGGING), we headed out to minister at the abortion mill for an hour (photo above). She prayed that she would be able to see at least one mother allow theie babies to experience their own birthdays!
Kaitlyn did really, really well talking over our handheld mic system about her own birthday and how these moms were going to deprive their babies of experiencing their own birthday. She painted a word picture, very nicely, of their babies not being able to stick their little fingers into their birthday cakes; they would not be able to smear it all over their little faces. All those sweet baby photos and memories would be lost if they went through with it. The picture of "missed birthdays" was very well presented. I am so proud of her willingness to speak and in the wisdom of her words.THREE potential birthdays in celebration of Kaitlyn's birthday! PRAISE JESUS!

The two South Korean women here to learn from US pro-lifers, in order to start the first-ever pro-life ministry in South Korea!
Today was a very interesting day at the abortion mill. We thought one baby had been saved, but they ended up returning right before we packed up to leave. So, so sad. She really didn't want to be there today, doing that. It's always heartbreaking to walk away with no KNOWN victories, but we do have some other praises.
The first was that a young mother came to the mill to minister. She is 7 months pregnant and came FIVE times to abort the baby within her womb. She also had an abortion there years before. She said that the thing that haunts her from her first abortion was seeing the canister fill with blood and small baby parts, as the machine made strange sucking noises. Much emotional distress followed. After that abortion she gave birth to a son, who is now 1 years old, and then unexpectedly found herself pregnant with this child. She went five times to abort her baby, but left each of the first 4 times after remembering the sights and sounds of her first abortion. When she finally gained enough "courage" to go into this mill on her 5th visit, she got as close to aborting her baby as getting to the ultrasound room. They told her she was 10 weeks, not 7, and she asked to see the screen (they routinely turn the screen away, using ultrasounds as a means of identifying fetal age and the price of the abortion...they don't want mothers to see the truth and reality of LIFE). The technician said, "Well, we're not supposed to do this, but here." And she turned the screen toward the mom, who then said that she could not go through with it. She went out to get a refund and said that she was talked to "like a dog." They cussed at her and outright refused to give her the money back, but finally gave back $160, even though she paid close to $400. The disgusting thing is about these "pro-choicers" is that they never want women to make a choice that doesn't end up lining their wallets with money and they're dumpsters with babies!
Later on this mother who chose life for this baby saw some other counselors talking to a woman at the call center (the building next to the mill that makes abortion appointments for 3 southeastern abortion clinics). She "bee-lined" it over there to talk to this woman. When she did, one of the staff of the mill (we call her Sassy, as that's exactly how she acts) comes running out taking photos of her on the property talking to this women. Being that it was this mother's first time out there ministering she did not know about the property lines. After being told as to where the line was, she didn't really think that they applied to her this time, since she had come there 6 other times before and was technically a patron. Sassy got mad, took photos, verbally insulted this mother and called the cops. The young mother left before the cops arrived (they're so used to getting calls from the clinic that they do not hurry to get there any longer...they are known to waste the officer's time). When the police got there, Sassy showed them a huge folder full of 8x10 photos of all of us (kids included) ministering at the mill. Interesting...we never knew that they cared enough about us to keep our photos in an album (LOL). She tried to argue her case, saying they should arrest us for "blocking the driveway" (we hand brochures out to cars entering...the drive is never blocked) or at least give us a citation. Long story short, the police sided with us and said everything looked to be perfectly legal. Sassy was so mad. Their evil plans were crushed by an Almighty God!!! Thank you to ALL who prayed for our safety, as this is just one aspect of it!!
"'No weapon forged against you will prevail, and you will refute every tongue that accuses you. This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD, and this is their vindication from me,' declares the LORD."
Isaiah 54:17
After this, Andrea brought by two South Korean women who just flew in from South Korea last night! They were here, on the request of their Priest, to scope out pro-life ministry in the United States, in order to start a first-even pro-life ministry in South Korea. Abortion is illegal (for now) in South Korea, but many women are getting them from their doctors or hospitals because of a law that was passed that protects them from post-abortion prosecution. In South Korea it is preferred that you have a boy child and that you NEVER get pregnant out of wedlock, so abortion is now sought by many. Because abortion is technically illegal there, they said that there isn't even a Korean word for "Pro-Life". Churches do not speak out on it, because to most it's a mute issue since it's illegal. However....many babies are still being killed and absolutely no one is there to speak on their behalf. These brave women want to be able to take back information to South Korea on how best to minister to women in unwanted pregnancies. Their plans are just wonderful and they have learned a lot already. That was a REFRESHING sight to see women from another country trying to spread this ministry to their hometowns. Please join me in praying for their safety, as they do anticipate some type of persecution for their efforts. [See, we have it so easy to stand up for babies in the USA, but most of us just sit back and allow it to happen. Let these women INSPIRE you to action!!!]
Last, but not least, we found such encouragement through two women that Annalise and her friend, Theresa, were able to stop before they entered the mill parking lot and give them literature. When these two women -a mom and daughter - took the information and realized what these girls were telling them "that place" was, they immediately were angered. They were not angry at us, but angry at the OB/GYN who had directed this woman to an abortion clinic when the daughter (the patient) was not even pregnant. She was seeking another type of gynecological care. After listening in on speaker phone as this young lady call her OB/GYN in disgust, they denied ever sending her there and were OUTRIGHT rude about it. These ladies told us that there was a sign in the OB office that told of abortion starting at $275 at a local clinic. Obviously there was miscommunication (and rude communication) for them to send a non-pregnant women to a place that only does abortions. Through this we did learn that abortions are PROMOTED outright at local OB/GYN offices. These women ended up sharing their own testimonies (POWERFUL, Sprit-led stuff). We all held hands and prayed for babies to be saved and mills to be CLOSED. The prayer was led by the mother, and let me just say how refreshing this was to be encouraged so immensely at the end of a day!
Overall, God really encouraged us, though there were no saves of which we're aware. Thank you, again and again, to those who pray for our safety. There are physical threats made at times...and certainly legal threats made...though the enemy has NEVER prevailed! Thank you for all who encourage us and surround us AND THE MOMS AND BABIES with prayer. This means MORE than you can ever know! I just know that the strength of our ministry is due to the faithful prayers of friends!! THANK YOU!
James 4:14 says, "Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes."As for the many sadly deceived Christians in this world (I once was one of them)...Scripture clearly tells us that many will be deceived in the last days. One of my favorite Scriptures is 2 Timothy 3:12-17 "In fact, everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted, while evil men and impostors will go from bad to worse, deceiving and being deceived. But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have become convinced of, because you know those from whom you learned it, and how from infancy you have known the holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work."
"I will fulfill my vows to You, O God, and will offer a sacrifice of thanks for Your help. For you have rescued me from death; You have kept my feet from slipping. So now I can walk in Your presence, O God, in Your life-giving light." Psalm 56:12-13
“We're not necessarily doubting that God will do the best for us; we are wondering how painful the best will turn out to be.” CS LewisThis "I have free will to do as I please" line of thinking fails when held next to Scripture. If that line of thinging were to be true.....God is put in a box. God needs our help and relies upon our free will in order to create. God has given us free will, so we must exercise it however we want; we must let our heart or the peace we feel determine our path in family planning. The problem with that is that we are given free will to obey and free will to disobey; we are given free will to accept His creations as He sends them and we are given free will to reject the blessings He would like to send us.
Is God not capable of sending you the EXACT amount of children He wants to send? Or is it that we do not view children as the incredible blessing that their CREATOR says that they are? Ouch!"Another major problem with the argument is the alleged authority of the steward. The steward works for someone else who has established the parameters of his stewardship. The steward does not make their own rules – they do what the boss says; they accept what He gives and the blessings He sends. So, with this in mind, remember – God is boss and has told human stewards of His world to be fruitful and multiply. So how is it legitimate without some further word from God on the subject for the steward to just up and decide one day "He does not really want me to do this – He left it up to me to decide." The Bible, in other words, nowhere tells man He has the authority to decide that God’s command to be fruitful and multiply no longer applies. Man may claim authority to decide this, but the Bible does not indicate God intends for man to assume such authority.
Who do we think we are, to tell Him what blessings we will and will not accept, guided by our selfish desires for comfort, prestige, the praise of men, or other carnal motives?!! He owns the cattle on a thousand hills, but He needs your help in limiting the kids so that there will be enough funds left for Him to spread enough around so that each couple will be able to reasonably support [them] financially.”
"One of you will say to me: "Then why does God still blame us? ForAll of this human reasoning and logic goes against the God we see in Scripture. Only He opened the womb and only He closed it. If God is the same yesterday, today and forever, then that still holds true today. Notice how throughout Scripture God talks of children as the highest rewards. If that is so and He is the POTTER, then we, as the CLAY, should accept His creations that He chooses to create within our womb. If He told you he wanted you to have 2, then you'll have 2 whether you use "protection" [from blessings] or not.
who resists his will?" But who are you, O man, to talk back to God? "Shall what is formed say to him who formed it, 'Why did you make me like this?' "Does not the potter have the right to make out of the same lump of clay some pottery for noble purposes and some for common use?" Romans 9:19-21
We have been asked by someone at the abortion clinic at which we minister for baby items for a little GIRL who is due to be born in just a little over a month! The mother is very poor and needy and has asked those she knew would help for assistance. We really want to show Doris that Jesus loves her, cares and PROVIDES for her and her baby girl. If you are local to Charlotte or would like to send items or money toward us locating certain items, that would be much appreciated. THESE ITEMS CAN BE USED!!!!! In fact, we'd prefer used items, so that you can put more of your budgeted money toward more (used) items. :)
Something I would love everyone to include with their gift is a note or card to the mother and baby (they mother's name is Doris). I would love to present her with gifts and cards, so as to resemble a baby shower of sorts, since we are trying to shower her with gifts.
So far, we have some blankets and a baby bath tub. Things on the top of our list are: a bouncy seat, towels and wash cloths, diapers, wipes, girl clothes for winter, furniture, a swing, etc. Like I said, this mom has only what we've collected, which is pretty much nothing.
If you would like to help give to this mom and baby, please contact me for more information by commenting below.
Thank you for your Christ-like generosity in looking out for the poor and needy!


Q. I know you do a lot of ministering to women considering an abortion and this is something I have always felt I needed to be more a part of. I know for a fact our ProLife is nothing like that here, and I was hoping you might be able to guide me in the right direction to start something here in my area, such as that which you have in yours. ~ Jennifer
A. First of all, have you tried going out to the mill on a Saturday to see what other pro-lifers are already out there? If not, I would definitely start that way. Getting connections and "inside information" on the clinic is definitely a plus! If there's no one out there, then your approach would be much different.
This is what I'd do if I found Pro-life CONTACTS at the mill:
If I DID NOT have CONTACTS and was all alone:
A popular question I get asked often has to do with HOW I homeschool various ages with so many children! Okay....so, here we go! Here is a sample of how our homeschool operates. Remember, each homeschool is different, and trying to implement OUR schedule for YOUR family will most likely NOT work. Tweak it over time...you'll get the hang of it! For information on the curricula we use, look under "Homeschool Tools".
Below is our USUAL daily homeschooling schedule. The first thing to understand is that we are VERY flexible, but this is generally what we do and times are approximate. We have chosen to school year-round so that the kids don't go through the "summer absent mindedness" that other kids go through. There's also no need for review (you can usually skip through the review sections at the beginning of each year of seatwork if you school year round since review is not needed). Kids who school year-round also usually get ahead in their school work and can usually graduate early because of this. Moms also have less chance of the infamous "homeschool mom burn out" because of the MANY breaks during the year. We take off when babies are born, kids adopted, etc. Around Christmas we take nearly a month off, a few weeks off around Thanksgiving (although I count all the cooking and baking as home economics, math, science, etc.), etc. So, we really enjoy what a year round schedule offers. It really allows for year-round flexibility.
We wake at 7 am. The children do their chores and get dressed for the day. At 7:30 we eat breakfast.
Seatwork begins at 8:00/8:30. While the kids do their seatwork, I am readily available to help or instruct, while I am overseeing them at the kitchen table in a "round robin" fashion. However, they don't need help as often once they can read the directions and know how to do the problems, so I use this time to work with the younger ones or to catch up on e-mail/internet if Ellie (2 1/2) and Judah (1 1/2) are coloring or playing contentedly. I am very encouraging of independent learning, and letting them be independent while you're still within reach is a great way to begin!
Another thing I have really loved seeing is when the older children learn to TEACH the younger ones! This is a valuable skill that most adults have never learned. For instance, in our home, the oldest two teach pre-school (under my watchful eye) to the younger ones. This consists of saying the pledge, counting to 100, saying the months of the year and days of the week, learning their address and phone number, phonics sounds, singing songs, saying Bible memory verses, etc. It only lasts about 15 minutes...just long enough for both age groups to learn what's needed (the teaching and the receiving instruction). This has proven to be extremely beneficial to both the older and younger children. The younger children learn to have and show a unique form of respect to their older siblings, and the older ones learn that valuable skill of passing on knowledge to a younger child in an exciting, age-appropriate manner!
As for housework, I usually have laundry started right after I am ready for the day and stay on top of it while teaching. The girls (and I...though they REALLY have taken over my kitchen in this area) prepare a crock pot dinner first thing in the morning or lay out what needs to be out for dinner if no crock pot is used. This takes the stress off at the end of the day when I realize that dinner's in an hour and do not know what to prepare!
Lunchtime is at noon, and most everyone has completed their seatwork by this time. They will either listen to their Mystery of History CD's during lunch or on Friday afternoons. We do 3 lessons and the timeline for those lessons each week.
Free time and outside play is after lunch (for those who have completed seatwork) until 4:00. Outdoor chores, such as sweeping, weeding, etc. is also done during this time. If it's a rainy or extra cold/hot day, we will watch educational DVD's from Netflix or play games.
Science consists of reading living science books until they turn 12 years old, at which time they read their Apologia text at home and do their lab work with nJoy Science (nice for Mommy's sanity and her kitchen's cleanliness!). Reading and computer time (regular reading time and science) is from 4:00 - 5:00 and that includes science 3 times weekly and our geography (online games and Top Secret Adventures).
At 5:00 we get ready for Daddy to come home (showers, clean up house, set table, ready dinner, light candles, prepare after dinner coffee, etc.). If there is any free time, I might allow computer time, as they're right in and next to the kitchen. Dinner is at 6:00.
Family worship is at 7:30 usually. Daddy leads us in Bible and devotional reading, singing and Bible memory. Bedtime is at 8:00. Older children (mainly Annalise, 18) who stays up later than that goes down to the lower level (the finished basement...full bath, boys' rooms, play room, etc.) until she decides to head to bed. This gives Mommy and Daddy ALONE TIME, which is great!
Extracurricular Activities and Field Trips
This year we have not had our usual Homeschool Hut activities (they only offer dance classes now), so our schedule has a little more to it. We move school work around for field trips and extracurricular activities or lessons...another great benefit of homeschooling!
So far, we have planned on doing robotics (3 oldest boys only), 4H (all kids), CHEA Choir (Kaitlyn only), community outreach and MANY field trips....Old Salem, newspaper, corn maze, Lucille MIller Observatory (4th largest telescope in NC) and more! Though this sounds like a lot with a family of our size, it is really quite manageable!
Entertaining Babies and Small Children
We keep Rubbermaid bins full of toys that they do not usually play with. These bins can ONLY be used during school. They usually play rather quietly (our other kids, being part of a large family, really aren't bothered by the controlled commotion). Another favorite activity is "playing school". They grab a pencil or crayon and scribble away happily, yelling, "Mommy, look! Look!" now and again!
Nap time for Judah (1 1/2) is from 10:30-12 & again at 3:30 - 5:00, and that allows a lot to be accomplished during that time. Since Annalise is no longer homeschooled (she graduated in May), she loves to help out with the littles during school, as well, which is a blessing.
I think that's just about it! Let me know if I missed anything and I will go back and edit!



Galatians 5:13 says, "You, my brothers, were called to befree. But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature; rather, serve one another in love."
September 3, 2010 - Friday morning, my family and many other of our friends went out to Latrobe abortion mill to try and save babies. We might have had 1 save, but we are not sure. That day, one of the abortion clinic’s “security guards” was taking pictures of all of the kids that were there on the sidewalk to try to make it seem in his p......ictures that we were sad and didn’t want to be there, but we smiled and waved because we DID want to be there and he got mad. I think it is very important for children to be out at an abortion mill. Thanks for reading! ~Kaitlyn (10 yrs. old and going to be 11 on September 27th)
September 10, 2010 - I went to the Latrobe abortion mill today with my mom and siblings. My mom was able to tell the abortionist over the microphone that what he is doing is wrong and telling the people about his malpractice history and the suits with the clinic and that made him mad! He was shaking and taking pictures of the kids and my mom told him that there is still hope for him if only he repents and accept Jesus as his Savior. I do believe that there was one save today! Praise the Lord! ~ Annalise Metzger (18)
We have had a request for this toy HERE for a baby who was spared death from abortion. The mother has $30 to put toward it, I have $21. That leaves another $17. Does anyone want to donate to this cause? I know that it's not a necessity, but she did request this from me and I would love to show her how Jesus provides for even the "wants" in life, on occassion. If you'd like to donate, please just comment and I can send you info on how to get me the extra money.
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