Showing posts with label Biblical Home Education. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Biblical Home Education. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Raising Indigenous Missionaries

"And to the Jews I became as a Jew, that I might win Jews... to those who are without law, as without law, though not being without the law of God but under the law of Christ, that I might win those who are without law... I have become all things to all men, that I may by all means save some." 1 Corinthians 9:20-22

Indigenous Missionaries are individuals who originate in a particular region or country and who boldly share the Gospel of Jesus. Since our children are natural citizens of America, and since the ones who have trusted in Jesus as their Savior have been commissioned by Jesus to share the Good News of the salvation that He freely gives, they are perfectly placed to live out the role of an Indigenous missionary.

We can probably all agree that being a native missionary is a commendable goal for our children, though they may also be called to be a foreign missionary as adults. So, what about the training process? Must we wait until they are a certain age? Should they plan on attending Bible college before actively learning how to practically share their faith? What should our focus be in these formidable years?

First, WHO did Jesus command to go?

The Great Commission - Matthew 28:16-20

“Then the eleven disciples went to Galilee, to the mountain where Jesus had told them to go. When they saw him, they worshiped him; but some doubted. Then Jesus came to them and said, “'All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.'”

In that passage there is something deeper to think over: "Therefore go" is not the best translation. An expanded translation that better reflects the Greek text is:

"As you go through life, wherever you may have been born, wherever God may take you, as a habitual practice of life, make disciples . . ." (Matt. 28:19).

So, while there is a need to go to the ends of the earth and preach the Good News, there is a commission given to EACH believer that tells us to make disciples HABITUALLY, AS we go through life!



Secondly, HOW can this be accomplished?

Where has God called me (Lisa) to go in life? He has called me to be a wife and a mother. Since Mark is my spiritual leader, I am not called to make a disciple of him. But Mark and I have been called, as our children’s parents, to make disciples of them and to train them in the way of Jesus at ALL times (Deuteronomy 6:6-9). The first way our family accomplishes this is through homeschooling!

Another one of the many ways we are training our “little disciples” is to allow them to participate in our ministry – our family’s ministry - to those at abortion clinics. We minister to them where they are and we share with them the Good News and Hope that only Jesus can bring! Many times we get to minister to these men and women, both on a short-term and long-term basis. So in essence, we go about this particular ministry, making disciples by reaching souls outside of abortion clinics. (for more info: check the Pro-Life and Family Ministry categories)



When you train up disciples you have to equip them with the tools they need to share and defend their faith! We train them “as they go”, teaching them through the many opportunities that present themselves in real life, and preparing them before hand through doctrinal overview (discussing why we believe what we believe) and through evangelism training. I highly recommend evangelism training through Ray Comfort’s ministry, Living Waters. Their resources are great! Another good one, for learning about solid scientific defenses for our faith is through Ken Ham’s ministry, Answers In Genesis. Through nightly family worship, we study the Scriptures and hide the Word in our hearts!

What are YOU doing?

So where have you been called to serve? How can you and will you purposefully share your own faith, as well as train your children up to know and experience sharing their faith as children, teens and young adults?



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Tuesday, January 3, 2012

2012 Metzger Homeschool Schedule - Year-round with Multiple Grade Levels



I'm really enjoying our school schedule this year! Since we school year-round, taking a few breaks during the year and a larger break between Thanksgiving and New Years, our grade levels are "in between" for some of the children. They all go at their own pace and complete their school years at different times during the year. Below is how we have worked it all out! Hope it sparks some imagination in your own home school!

Kaitlyn (12 years, 9th Grade) 2012

Monday – Consumer Mathematics, Vocabulary Cartoons x 3, Oral Language Plus, American Literature, The Daily Spark, Music Theory Review, 4H Projects
Tuesday – Consumer Mathematics, The Daily Spark x 2, Choir/Theory, 4H Projects
Wednesday – Consumer Mathematics, Vocabulary Cartoons x 3, Oral Language Plus, American Literature, The Daily Spark, Online Geography, MOH, God’s Design For Life x 2 @ 4:30, Missions Reading/book report, 4H Projects
Thursday – Consumer Mathematics, Vocabulary Cartoon Review, The Daily Spark, Music Theory Review, 4H, Wilderness, 4H Projects
Friday – Community Service, Geography, 4H Projects, Read and Understand Science x 1

Ethan (11, 7th/8th grade) 2012

Monday – Pre-Algebra x 2, Typing, Reading, Oral Language Plus, 4H Projects
Tuesday – The Daily Spark, FFHA, Reading, 4H Projects
Wednesday – Pre-Algebra x 2, The Daily Spark, Oral Language Plus, Online Geography, MOH, Reading, God’s Design For Life x 2 @ 4:30, 4H Projects
Thursday – Pre-Algebra x 1, Silly Starters with Trey, Reading, typing, 4H
Friday – Community Service, Geography, Read and Understand Science x 1

Trey (9 years, 5th/6th grade) 2012

Monday – The Daily Spark, Math x 1, Typing, Reading, 4H Projects
Tuesday – Math x 2, FFHA, Reading, 4H Projects
Wednesday – The Daily Spark, Online Geography, MOH, Reading, God’s Design For Life x 2 @ 4:30, 4H Projects
Thursday – Math x 2, Silly Starters with Ethan, reading, typing, 4H
Friday – Community Service, Geography, Read and Understand Science x 1

Jake (7 years, 3rd grade) 2012

Monday – Math grade 3 x 2, Language 3, Typing, Reading, 4H Projects
Tuesday – Math grade 3x 1, FFHA, Reading, 4H Projects
Wednesday – Math grade 3x 1, Online Geography, MOH, Reading, God’s Design For Life x 2 @ 4:30, 4H Projects
Thursday – Math grade 3x 1, Language 3 x 2, Typing, Reading, 4H
Friday – Community Service, Geography, Read and Understand Science x 1

Julia (6 years, K5/1st grade) 2012

Monday –Math 1st grade x 1, Reading Advanced K5, 4H Projects
Tuesday – Math 1st grade x 1, FFHA, 4H Projects
Wednesday – Reading Advanced K5, Geography, 4H Projects, God’s Design For Life x 2 @ 4:30 Thursday – Math 1st grade x 2, Typing, 4H
Friday – Community Service, Geography, Read and Understand Science x 1

Ellie (Pre-K) 2012

Monday - Thursday: "Preschool" and Rod and Staff

Judah (Nothing formal at all, just 3 years old) 2012

Monday - Thursday: "Preschool" with his big sister so that he can learn how to count, address, phone number, birthday, days of week, months of year, etc. Workbook from Wal-Mart.

Eva (11 months...play, play, eat, nap, play) 2012

*FFHA is Fun and Fitness Homeschool Athletics (mainly P.E. and pick-up sports games)

*4H for our children includes: Veterinary Science, sewing, Robotics, Wilderness, Animal Sciences, (and in the past - Rabbits, Pre-Flight, Dogs)

*MOH is Mystery of History On the day we do that, we do 3 lessons plus work on our timeline!

*Science reading is nature, animal and Creation sciences that we read aloud. Experiments are also done at that time. Again, we will do two or three lessons at a time.

*Geography Video/Presentation is when one of our children chooses a country in a continent I choose. They find a YouTube video (with me by their side to "screen" them) or a Netflix video. They also do a presentation on that country and everyone learns to locate that country on the globe.

*Games are all educational in nature (money counting, math, geography, etc.)

*Community Service projects are like this and this and more in that section!

*Doubling Up! Our children double up on certain subjects on different days so that we can devote Fridays to more fun activities and to community outreach. Since we school year-round, some subjects are only done 4 days per week.

This plan is not set in stone and will probably be tweaked as the year goes forward! Ahhhh...the beauties of homeschooling!


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Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Free - Prepare your HEART and HOME for Christmas!

Want more meaning in your Christmas this year, celebrating the real reason for the season?

Read our first issue of Kaleo about preparing your home and heart for Christmas! This is a great FREE online magazine from At The Well, where I write monthly devotionals and homeschool help articles. In this issue, my "article" is featured on the cover - the Advent/Activity Calendar. Enjoy! It's FREE! Click "FULL SCREEN" to see it.




Merry CHRISTmas!


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Wednesday, November 2, 2011

True Knowledge


Below is an excerpt from my post today on At The Well.

“I am much afraid that schools will prove to be the gates of hell unless they diligently labor in explaining the Holy Scriptures, engraving them in the hearts of youth. I advise no one to place their child where the Scriptures do not reign paramount. Every institution in which men are not increasingly occupied with the Word of God must become corrupt.” Martin Luther, A.D. 1537

Martin Luther’s quote is direct, yet honest and full of truth. Since Luther was a lover of the Word of God, His thoughts were likely based on how he viewed the Bible to be the beginning of all knowledge and how we, as humans, are nothing apart from God. Therefore, he determined that we need spiritual teaching above all other academic instruction. Do we need to throw aside reading, writing and arithmetic? Of course not. Since the foundation determines the stability of all else that is built above, we must look at what the groundwork of our children’s education is, as well as what it should be. Without diligent instruction about our Creator God; without a true understanding of what He desires for our lives, True wisdom and knowledge will never be attained.

“The fear of the LORD is the beginning [first-fruits; principle thing] of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and instruction.” Proverbs 1:7

What is the fear of God? READ THE REST HERE...


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Sunday, October 2, 2011

How do you celebrate Reformation Day?

Q. Where do you go in town to celebrate Reformation Day? Is there a party nearby?


A. Well, we just do our party at home. We watch this Reformation video ahead of time and the children make a village and act out various roles, mainly of the Reformers. Though the Reformers were mostly men, our girls act as their wives and/or town people. They all dress in period costumes to the best of what we have on hand. They make "indulgences" ahead of time to sell to one another, along with a long piece of paper with the 95 theses on it! We usually have homemade bread or some treat with spiced cider, too. Here is a great link on how to make your own Reformation Day Faire!

Another fun part of the night is when we light ALL the candles all over the house to remind us of the following verse (particularly the part about what fellowship does "light have with darkness" part).



2 Corinthians 6:14-18 "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols? For we are the temple of the living God...Therefore come out from them and be separate, says the Lord. Touch no unclean thing, and I will receive you. I will be a Father to you, and you will be my sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty.'"


I hope that helps a little. I found that since we prepare the day before, as well, by taking off of school that the kids REALLY look forward to planning the events of the evening. It might be just our family, but we have a blast! HERE are photos of how our family celebrates Reformation Day! Enjoy!


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Reformation Overview DVD!



Our family has enjoyed this movie. It's 6 hours long, but it is manageable in that it's broken up into half-hour segments. WONDERFUL....and available from Netflix!

Reformation Overview - Explore what it means to believe with this thorough program designed to shed light on the Reformation by introducing key reformers and crucial events. Ideal for a classroom setting, these films are divided into 30-minute segments, with convenient topic conversions and forewords. Learn about John Wycliffe, John Hus, Martin Luther, Ulrich Zwingli, John Calvin, The Anabaptists and William Tyndale, whose stories will encourage and motivate.

HERE are photos of how our family celebrates Reformation Day! Enjoy!


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Thursday, September 22, 2011

Serving the Homeless

Yesterday we took a field trip with our homeschool group to Bright Blessings, which is a volunteer-led non-profit organization that brings joy and support to homeless children. Their programs bring positive emotional experiences to homeless children and their families by lifting spirits, boosting confidence, broadening horizons and supporting critical needs.

The children were able to assemble birthday boxes and make wrapping paper for the books. We also had a news crew present to do a story on Bright Blessings. They told us that it will be a while before it airs and will let us know when it does. The kids were really oblivious, though, to all the camera attention because there were so many activities with which to help!

It was a wonderful experience and we'd LOVE to go back again soon. Perhaps we will lead a community service project with our 4H group to Bright Blessings.







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Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Metzger Spring Homeschool Schedule 2011-2012





I'm really enjoying our school schedule this year! Since we school year-round, taking a few breaks during the year and a larger break between Thanksgiving and New Years, our grade levels are "in between" for some of the children. They all go at their own pace and complete their school years at different times during the year. Below is how we have worked it all out! Hope it sparks some imagination in your own home school!

Kaitlyn (12 years, 9th Grade) 2011-2012

Monday – Algebra 1, Great Explorations in Editing, Essay for DAR, Word Smart Junior, Spirit Controlled Temperament, Music Theory Review, 4H Projects
Tuesday – Algebra 1, Essay for DAR, Word Smart Junior, Choir & Theory, 4H Projects
Wednesday – Algebra 1, Great Explorations in Editing, Essay for DAR, Word Smart Junior, Spirit Controlled Temperament, Online Geography, MOH, 4H Projects
Thursday – Algebra 1, Essay for DAR, Word Smart Junior, Music Theory Review, 4H, Wilderness, 4H Projects
Friday – Community Service, Geography Video/Presentation, 4H Projects, Science reading, Missions Reading, Game

Ethan (10, 7th/8th grade) 2011-2012

Monday – Math x 2, English x 1, Typing, Reading, 4H Projects
Tuesday – English x 3, FFHA, Reading, 4H Projects
Wednesday – Math x 2, Online Geography, MOH, Reading, 4H Projects
Thursday – Math x 1, reading, typing, 4H, Wilderness
Friday – Community Service, Geography Video/Presentation, Science reading, Game

Trey (9 years, 5th/6th grade) 2011-2012

Monday – English x 2, Math x 1, Typing, Reading, 4H Projects
Tuesday – Math x 2, FFHA, Reading, 4H Projects
Wednesday – English x 2, Online Geography, MOH, Reading, 4H Projects
Thursday – Math x 2, reading, typing, 4H, Wilderness
Friday – Community Service, Geography Video/Presentation, Science reading, Game

Jake (3rd grade) 2011-2012

Monday – Math x 2, Typing, Reading, 4H Projects
Tuesday – Math x 1, FFHA, Reading, 4H Projects
Wednesday – Math x 1, Online Geography, MOH, Reading, 4H Projects
Thursday – Math x 1, typing, reading, 4H, Wilderness
Friday – Community Service, Geography Video/Presentation, Science reading, Game

Julia (K5/1st grade) 2011-2012

Monday – English x 2, Math x 1, Reading, 4H Projects
Tuesday – Math x 1, FFHA, Reading, 4H Projects
Wednesday – English x 2, Geography, Reading, 4H Projects
Thursday – Math x 2, reading, 4H, Wilderness
Friday – Community Service, Geography Video/Presentation, Science reading, Game


Ellie (Pre-K) 2011-2012


Monday - Thursday: "Preschool" and Rod and Staff


Judah (Nothing formal at all, 2 years old) 2011-2012


Monday - Thursday: "Preschool" with his big sister so that he can learn how to count, address, phone number, birthday, days of week, months of year, etc.


Eva (7 months...play, play, eat, nap, play) 2011-2012


*FFHA is Fun and Fitness Homeschool Athletics (mainly P.E. and pick-up sports games)


*4H for our children includes: Veterinary Science, Robotics, Wilderness, Animal Sciences, (and in the past - Rabbits, Pre-Flight, Dogs)


*MOH is Mystery of History On the day we do that, we do 3 lessons plus work on our timeline!


*Spirit Controlled Temperament is a high school requirement for Intro to Psychology. It is part of what we require in 10th grade for our students!


*Science reading is nature, animal and Creation sciences that we read aloud. Experiments are also done at that time. Again, we will do two or three lessons at a time.


*Geography Video/Presentation is when one of our children chooses a country in a continent I choose. They find a YouTube video (with me by their side to "screen" them) or a Netflix video. They also do a presentation on that country and everyone learns to locate that country on the globe.


*Games are all educational in nature (money counting, math, geography, etc.)


*Community Service projects are like this and this and more in that section!


*Doubling Up! Our children double up on certain subjects on different days so that we can devote Fridays to more fun activities and to community outreach. Since we school year-round, some subjects are only done 4 days per week.


This plan is not set in stone and will probably be tweaked as the year goes forward! Ahhhh...the beauties of homeschooling!



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Monday, September 5, 2011

Homeschool Grade Tracking

I know that a lot of relaxed homeschoolers do not care to keep track of every little grade, but the nit-picking perfectionist in me needs to do so. It's an obsession-thing! :) Actually, I really do not do it for anything more than for peace of mind, something I can refer to if someone "questions" me as to what we've done, and to check of that beautiful "to-do" list! It also is just makes keeping my records in one place that much more easy. Everything is there, and all backed up for safe-keeping!

As for how our family corrects/grades school work, see THIS post on At The Well. After I correct and grade each of the children's assignments or after each project is completed, I enter them into a computer program called The Homeschool Tracker.

This system (screenshot above) allows for so much flexibility. I use it to keep track of attendance and enter assignments for each day, attaching documents, as needed. That is pretty much all I do with this program, but there is so much more that one can do with it, if you so desire! There's help with keeping track with lesson planning, field trips, transcripts, goals, reading logs/progress, memorization and more! I could go on and on, but wouldn't you rather just check it out? The Homeschool Tracker


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Sunday, September 4, 2011

Easy Way to Teach and Learn The Ten Commandments!

60% of Americans cannot name even five of The Ten Commandments. Are you one of them? Have you always had trouble recalling which commandment was what number? Take THIS test or THIS test to see how well you fair and then watch the video below on how you can better recall each commandment in order!

This is an ingenious way of remembering them using mnemonics, which is a learning technique that aids memory! Sit down with your children and watch this 11 minute video and you'll forever remember each of The Ten Commandments in order! Very cool...




Here are some additional activities to do with your children as they learn The Ten Commandments!






If your children learn The Ten Commandments, they can send away for a FREE reward manget HERE!



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Thursday, August 25, 2011

Homeschool Overhaul


Lately we have found that our family needs a different plan or a change of plans in our homeschool. Since our year-round school year starts on September 1st, I'm reviewing everything we do and tweaking it. I will blog about the changes as time allows. The kids and I sat down this morning to talk about our school year and all it involves.

In today's discussion I told the children that each week I will assign a "project leader" to each choose a project for the week (starting with Ethan, as the oldest boy, choosing a project for the boys...and Annalise**, as the oldest girl, choosing a project for the girls). The "teacher" must choose the project and gather or ask for the materials to complete it. Then they must find links/videos to instill the knowledge on a more creative platform. For now, they are choosing our project ideas from the Teaching Good Things website.


Teaching Good Things


The children will be able to "ask the experts" (Mom, Dad, grandparents, etc.) about the things they are learning. For instance, if it's a "dangerous" woodworking project, they would consult an expert (Mark) about safety issues and Mark would help guide them through the project.

We're doing the same with geography. I will assign one child a continent and the child must find a Netflix documentary or two on the country of their choosing within that continent, as well as links or online games that teach about something about the country they choose. This makes geography fun and exciting!

My goal is that these new ideas and strategies will bring another aspect of "ownership" over their education and allows them to be excited about teaching things to their siblings. So far everyone is excited in planning what their projects and countries of interest will be!



[**Annalise has graduated in 2010 from our homeschool, but she naturally enjoys teaching children. In fact, she is helping to teach a preschool class locally. So that's why she's included her in these projects, as her schedule allows.]
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Monday, July 25, 2011

Equip Your Children and Do It Anyway...



"[Our children have] learned to go on the offensive; to confront
evil; not to entertain it [evil], but to defeat it...We have got to provide outlets to serve the Lord and have impact in our nation."
Rusty Thomas
The video below shows why we home educate and this is why we take our children out to these places of sin and destruction! We INCLUDE our children in the family vision! We do not separate the family-world and the ministry-world. Instead our children observe - for themselves, firsthand - the difference between good and evil; right and wrong; life and death! We must teach our children that all in life must be discerned as to whether or not something is right and good in the eyes of the Lord, and not what is acceptable and "normal" in the eyes of the world.

Equip your children! Do not TELL your children only what NOT to do, but train them up in righteousness and SHOW them what TO do!

Are you scared to step out like this and "come out from among them" [2 Corinthians 6:17]? DO IT ANYWAY! God will enable you and equip you, but FIRST you must step out in faith! Enjoy this great message from Rusty....






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Sunday, July 24, 2011

The Recent Invention of Adolescence...



"Adolescence is now accepted by most Americans as a strange and difficult period marked by wild swings of mood, outbursts of temper, rudeness, rebelliousness, and personality changes — all involuntary.

They would be surprised to learn that this period was unknown, unrecognized, and unseen in every previous civilization, culture, and society throughout the immensely long history of humanity. It is, even today, unknown in large areas of the inhabited world."

Read the rest HERE...






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Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Homeschooling and Socialization - The Great Debate!

Repost from 2006

Since I was raised in a "pioneer homeschooling" family, it has given me so many opportunities to observe, experience and debate the homeschooling vs. socialization issue. By far, it is the most criticized and worried about subject pertaining to homeschooling.

I have many, many articles on socialization with homeschoolers and the studies done by non-homeschoolers that prove that the outright majority of homeschoolers are getting more real-life socialization than their public school counterparts. For instance, homeschoolers are socialized VERTICALLY, rather than HORIZONTALLY. They socialize with their peers, as well as their 4 year old sibling and the 16 year old neighbor down the street. They can even successfully carry on a conversation (yes, an actual conversation) with an adult. Now, when any child reaches adult hood, will he be then socializing horizontally or vertically? Which is more practical for "real life?" After all, isn't "real life" what we're preparing our children for entering, whether homeschooled or otherwise? If so, homeschoolers are right on track! The horizontal socialization vs. vertical socialization is my favorite defense for homeschooling! I always have that one tucked away for my defense of my choice of education.

Some other good socialization points are as follows:

Research conducted by Michael Brady entitled Social Development in Traditionally Schooled and Homeschooled Children, a Case for Increased Parental Monitoring and Decreased Peer Interaction endorses this idea. Brady states, "There seems to be an overwhelming amount of evidence that children socialized in a peer-dominant environment are at higher risk for developing social maladjustment issues than those that are socialized in a parent monitored environment."

Research supports this. According to Home Schooling and the Question of Socialization by Richard G. Medlin, "Home-schooled children are taking part in the daily routines of their communities. They are certainly not isolated; in fact, they associate with--and feel close to--all sorts of people."

Hope that helps someone with this issue!


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Thursday, June 30, 2011

So you want to be a Supermom?

Over the last few years I've heard many moms vent their woes as to why they feel like they are terrible wives and mothers. They usually digress that they are unable to juggle all that life requires of them on top of the fact that they haven't completed projects X, Y and Z before week's end.

The vast majority of these moms have been reading other moms blogs, comparing their own actions and inactions in light of this wonderful supermom who is portrayed on the screen in front of them as having it all together.

Is reading inspiring blogs wrong? No. So, what's the real issue here?

There are a few reasons that these moms usually feel overwhelmed at their imperfections.

  1. They feel convicted because of a lack of motivation or lazy attitude

  2. They are setting their expectations too high

  3. They are over-committed to outside interests and activities

  4. They are letting opportunities take over while their so-called priorities are put on the back burner

  5. They are comparing their lives to another mom's life, instead of letting the blog properly motivate or encourage them in their calling

  6. They are spending too much time on these blogs, instead of digging into God's Word for instructions on how to become a better wife and mom

Because of the many homeschooling blogs out there these days, many people, I'm sure, assume most large family, homeschooling moms must be supermoms. While I believe that raising a large family does indeed take dedication and organization, it does not mean that all dedicated and organized women are born superheroes! While each of those women might have natural abilities and giftings, each are probably working hard to tweak areas of shortcomings in their lives. As women we must remember that each woman who appears successful on her blog struggles herself with her own set of inadequacies. We ALL face the fact on a daily (if not hourly) basis that we are imperfect creatures!

Homeschooling

We ALL need to stop comparing ourselves to another family or friend. It is tempting...especially in homeschooling circles. However, the BEAUTY of homeschooling is that everyone is supposed to be different from the next. If we're all using the same cookie cutter approach, we'd all turn out the same type of child. Pretty boring!
We do need to make sure, as homeschooling mamas, that we stick to our set priorities when making a schedule for our homeschool year or our summers! If we commit to all these wonderful activities just to find that we've abandoned what is truly important to God and our family, then we have failed. Prioritize and stick to the plan!

Housekeeping

As far as keeping one's house up to par. Well...see some of us (ahem, ME!) are borderline OCD with the house. We [I] can let it take over with how we want it. While you might look at my house on a visit and comment on how orderly and perfectly kept it is, I know that my weakness in this area is to let the perfection of my house take over my priority list. That's about when my flesh starts to envy you for being more relaxed.

If you are struggling with laziness, take heed that ALL humans are lazy at times. Commit to God to work harder and earn your keep, so to speak, as wife, mother and homeschool teacher! Don't let the ways of a sluggard sneak up on you. Instead, surround yourself in God's Word and memorize Scriptures that will rid you of a lazy attitude and lifestyle.

Join the Club!

I know that sometimes people have commented on how our family has it all together. Bwahaha! Nope. I don't think so! Nobody has it all together...we are ALL only human! No matter what you might see, hear or read about such "together" families, I can guarantee you that if you look a little deeper or ask what struggles they face as a family, we would get an earfull as to what brings them down a notch or two!

When we get down to it, we're really all a mess in some way, shape or form! We're ALL imperfect! It's LIFE!

So, join the club...we're all imperfect moms and most of us are just trying to do our best! Don't be fooled...we're all human; none of us are true supermoms! We all just rely on the fact that we can "do all things through CHRIST who strengthens" us to be all to all that He gave us to manage and care for!


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Thursday, June 16, 2011

Biblical Homeschooling - Is there an absence of God in your schooling?

Q. I really respect your blog and wanted to know what you think about this...I am just starting to homeschool my son and have been connecting online with other local moms. The question of whether we should form a co-op has come up. I felt led me to ask whether the co-op will be Christian and Bible-based. Of the responses I received, some said that they would really prefer it to be Christian based but didn't want to exclude people of other faiths...that we didn't need to have all subjects Bible-based, like sewing, art or cheese making (thought that last one was funny!).

And it's interesting that I had just read your posts about associating with those continuing in sin and the scripture about bad company breeds bad company. I was also just looking now at your
Philosophy of Education post and reading about how you want to instill godly principles within your children.

I think my thoughts on this is that I'd rather it be Christian based. And yes, sewing is not Christian (as odd as that sounds), but its the whole approach and application that needs to be Christian based, focused and directed, and this is where the real teaching is. Also, wouldn't there be logistical issues when we are trying to decide whether school will be closed for Ramadan or celebrating birthdays (issue for Jehovah Witnesses..) etc.?

So anyhow. what are your thoughts and sorry for the ramble. - Erin

A. Well, before I could respond to Erin's question and comments, I read her wonderful blog post on the subject.


...on the need for exclusivity within a homeschooling co-op

It's well worth the read! I encourage all of you to take the verses she refers to in the post and file them in your long-term memory so that you can access them for when you face a similar situation.

Each parent instills a worldview in their children. Whether this process of instilling a worldview is purposeful or accidental on the part of the parents, a worldview is passed down to their children nonetheless.

Be careful which pair of worldview spectacles you c
hoose to look through. Which pair of glasses do you regularly choose to look through from the pile that the world (and the devil) has to offer? Do you consider how the influences that surround you affect the way in which you see the world? If you surround yourself with sin (even in small amounts) or things that have an absence of God and His principles, then you are doing a variety of worldview-altering things.

First, you are telling yourself and others that God is boring or that His ways, commands, or instruction somehow waters down true wisdom and knowledge. Second, you are desensitizing yourself to sin by allowing God's principles to be pushed to the backburner and the world's principles to take presedence, which allows you to become more and more accepting of that which God hates. Lastly, your choice to engage the world in the ways that you do, pushing God into the shadows, demonstrates to your children that God is not the center of life, and that God is not interested in the "small" things that we enjoy or learn about in life. You are telling them that it is okay exclude God (which is what you are doing by allowing Him to remain absent) as long as we are doing something beneficial for acquiring "wisdom".

What is wisdom? Solomon, the most wise man that has ever or will ever live tells us in Proverbs 1:7 that "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge..." Our knowledge or wisdom in life begins when we learn to fear or display reverence for God. The Bible says also, in Psalm 111:10, "The fear of Jehovah is the beginning of wisdom; A good understanding have all they that do his commandments."

So, what does God, Whom we fear, command? "This is the command...Love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength. These words that I am giving you today are to be in your heart. Repeat them to your children. Talk about them when you sit in your house and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Bind them as a sign on your hand and let them be a symbol on your forehead. Write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates." [Deuteronomy 6:5-9] We are to teach our children to fear God, to love God with all our being and to TEACH this to our children...when? ALL THE TIME.

So, tell me...how can you separate this command from walking in the Truth of God's Word every minute of every day? You can't. We all need to search for God's truths in everything we do, learn about, and explore. There is no end to where God and His truth can be found! This is His world. All within it points to the Creator. If God is the supremecy of all human knowledge, why in the world would we want to look for knowledge anywhere else to begin with?


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Saturday, June 11, 2011

Apologia General Science: A Chemical Reaction

Apologia General Science 8th Grade
Module 1


A Chemical Reaction
Experiment 1.3

Kaitlyn (11) and Ethan (10) witnessed the effect of a chemical reaction. In a chemical reaction, one or more substances interact to form one or more new substances.

When the baking soda hit the vinegar, the mixture bubbled and fizzed, and the balloon inflated. At the same time, they noticed a color change. The mixture turned from a pinkish color to a bluish color.


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Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Homeschool Failure - Refuse to Fail or Burn Out

There are so many moms who need to know that they are not failures in God's eyes and that Jesus has given them every tool they need to complete their task set before them. Every homeschool mother has dealt with doubt, discouragement, or feelings of inadequacy at one time or another. No mother should believe that she is alone in her feelings of failure.

One thing that you must set forth to do is to refuse to give into the feelings that creep in through Satan’s lies and our own finite human reasoning. Keep your eyes set on the author and finisher of your faith as you go about your daily housework and homeschooling tasks.

Where to Meet Jesus: "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." [Matthew 11:28-30] The stressful and the commonplace days can take our focus off Jesus and put the load solely on our own shoulders. The weight brings us down into despair when all He asks is for us to share our troubles with Him.

The Way to Go: “If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you.” John 15:7 Pray and ask for daily help according to the promises in His Word. He is there to help you. All you have to do is ask according to Scripture.

How to Go: “I consider my life worth nothing to me, if only I may finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me.” Acts 20:24 Focus on the end goal, leaving your personal struggles to God.

How to Keep Going: "Peace be with you! As the Father has sent me, I am sending you." John 20:21 Go in faith, accepting the task God has given you. Let Him determine the logistics while you press on in peace.

Accept the vision God has revealed to your through His Word. Recall the vision regularly. Move toward the finish line while casting your burdens on Jesus. Fix your eyes on the only one who is the finisher, the motivator and the only unfailing source of strength.
“Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.” Hebrews 12:2

If Jesus had the ability to endure the cross and still see the joy before Him, we, too, can foresee our joy at the finish line, but first we must fix our eyes on the only One who can see us through – Jesus!

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Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Homeschool Failure - A Firm Foundation

Establishing your recorded goals on a firm foundation is a vital component of a plan that will enable your vision to withstand many storms. That firm foundation is the Word of God that will never pass away. Assign as many of your visionary inspirations as possible to Scripture, such as the ones listed below. You compilation of verses will serve as a motivation, as well as effective ammunition against any doubt as to why you should continue homeschooling.


Deuteronomy 6:6-9 “These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.”

Matthew 5:13-16
"You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled by men. You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven."

1 Peter 3:15
"Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have."

Luke 6:39, 40
"Jesus said: "Can a blind man lead a blind man? Will they not both fall into a pit? A student is not above his teacher, but everyone who is fully trained will be like his teacher."

Jeremiah 10:2
"Learn not the way of the heathen."

Proverbs 13:20
"He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm."

Psalm 1:1
"Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers."

Job 23:11-12
"My feet have closely followed his steps; I have kept to his way without turning aside. I have not departed from the commands of his lips; I have treasured the words of his mouth more than my daily bread."

Proverbs 13:20
“He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm.”

Ephesians 6:4
“Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.”

Isaiah 54:13
“All your sons will be taught by the LORD, and great will be your children's peace.”

Romans 12:2
“Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”

Proverbs 22:6
“Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.”

1 Corinthians 15:33
“Do not be misled: Bad company corrupts good character.”

Psalm 119:97-104
“Oh, how I love your law! I meditate on it all day long. Your commands make me wiser than my enemies, for they are ever with me. I have more insight than all my teachers, for I meditate on your statutes. I have more understanding than the elders, for I obey your precepts. I have kept my feet from every evil path so that I might obey your word. I have not departed from your laws, for you yourself have taught me. How sweet are your words to my taste, sweeter than honey to my mouth! I gain understanding from your precepts; therefore I hate every wrong path.”

Psalm 111:10; Proverbs 1:7
“Fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge.”

III John 4:3
“I have no greater joy than this, to hear of my children walking in the truth.”

Exodus 24:7 “All that the Lord has spoken we will do, and will be obedient.”

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